Perfectionism can be a way to hide. We want to start our company with all the bells and whistles: a nice logo, visual identity, business cards, and a domain name. But we keep delaying the launch, always finding something else to improve – more features, fixing bugs, making it look better.
I've noticed the same with my Jiu-Jitsu students. After a break, they make excuses before returning: they need to get in shape first, find a personal trainer, a good gym, and follow a strict diet. Even when they talk about competing someday, they think they need more training, conditioning, and drilling.
But the truth is, progress comes when you face challenges head-on. You can't expect everything to be perfect, especially the first time or after a break.
Imagine a teenager asking a thousand questions about sex, hoping for a flawless first time. You'd tell them it might not be perfect, but it gets better with experience.
Staying in your own world of fantasy prevents real growth because you need honest feedback to improve. Yes, it's tough and painful, but it's the quickest path to your goals.